Dating black Christian men

She Loves GOD

(And she would love to be loved by someone who also loves God.)

She’s sitting in the corner of the dark room with a small book in her hand, looking at a particular hand-carved wooden statue on a table a few steps away from where she was. She sits in the same spot every day at exactly the same time. Every time you pass her, you think about asking her out on a date -- but she seems so involved with what she’s reading that you hesitate to even walk near her, much less break her concentration with conversation. Besides, it's awkward -- and a bit rude -- to ask someone on a date inside the church when she’s in the middle of prayer. But all you need is a little push and some of these moves:

• First, you have to actually approach her and talk to her. The other suggested moves won’t be possible if you haven’t even tried talking to her. Smile and say hello; if she returns the greeting, that means she’s open to talking with you.

• Next, when she agrees to go on a date with you, buy her a nice bunch of pink roses. Roses are great for a first date because the pink color symbolizes pure intentions for friendship while opening a freeway for love.

• Ask her politely what she would prefer to do on the date: hang out, watch a movie, grab a bite with you, etc. Be as courteous, respectful, and friendly as possible.

• Your first date should be well-planned, and you should be well-prepared for it. Be sure to have made dinner reservations, pre-purchased your movie tickets, etc. If she didn't indicate a preference for where to eat, try to find a restaurant with a romantic ambiance that’s just right for the first date.

• On your special night, try to keep the conversation as casual as possible. Talk about the usuals: favorite things, favorite people, hobbies, likes, and dislikes. Feeling comfortable with yourself and putting her at ease on the first date will increase the chances of a second date.

• Before the actual date, try to look nice and smell nice. Prepare yourself for the awesome night with the girl you like.(She may even be god-sent)